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How I taught Batman all his tricks

Hi guys! Today I will bring up a topic you have asked me about for years. How I taught Batman tricks!

I started to teach Batman to lie down on cue in 2012/2013, and that was his first “real” trick. With Batman, I prefer to use positive reinforcement in trick training. That means that I praise him when he takes one step in right direction. I praise every single attempt, and if he is confused, I’m not clear enough, and we simply take a break. I won’t push, punish or force him to do the wanted behavior. If I want to teach my horse to walk after a ball, I first praise the horse when the horse looks at the ball. If I want to teach my horse to look away from the treat, I praise the horse when it turns its head in another direction. If I want to teach my horse to pick up a whip, I praise the horse when he touches the whip. Simple as that. It requires patience, correct timing and a basic relationship with your horse from the ground. You can use positive reinforcement on all horses, turtles, whales, eagles, boyfriends and squirrels.

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Trick training certanly made Batman a prouder, more willing, happier and a more curious horse. He became more outgoing and fun to be around. He started to show a different side of his personality, the silly, fun Batman I love so much suddenly appeared for real. Everything is easier to teach a horse that is eager to learn, and finds training fun. And what is fun training? Training where you get challenges, and praise when you understand the task, training completely free from punishment and fear. Teamwork, happy moments, new experiences, and the chance to spend time together and have fun from the ground.

Please keep in mind that I’m not a professional or a trainer, and this blog post is based on my personal experience with Batman. I highly recommend you to seek help from a trainer, simply to learn the basics of timing, equine psychology and behaviour when it comes to clicker training. I recommend to find a trainer near you.

I remember so well that I loved playing with my dog when I was younger; we had so much fun together. I taught her 50 tricks using positive reinforcement and body language. I had no idea about what I was doing, I simply tried! We ran around all day long, jumped, climbed, balanced and rested. I even taught her some dressage moves! My dream was to have the same relationship with a horse. Now I have the excact same relationship with Batman, and play with him the same way. He is 600 kg heavier, but the feeling of a true connection to an animal remains the same. It is magic. And for that, I’m forever grateful to my dog, who let me experience it for the first time. Thank you dear Dora!

Batman know the following tricks (in chronological order)

  • Head down
  • “Come here”
  • Park and stay
  • Jambette
  • Lie down
  • Rear
  • Kiss
  • Turn towards me
  • Smile
  • Stand on pedestal
  • Rear
  • Spanish walk
  • Pick up whip
  • Lie down with rider
  • Jambette with rider
  • Play football
  • Shake head

Other liberty basics is not included in the list.

Tricks I want to teach Batman

  • Neigh
  • Count
  • Hold arrows when I’m doing archery
  • Pull arrows out from the target
  • Paint on a canvas
  • Do tricks from a longer distance
  • Lift a sword (not sharp)
  • Hold a shield

So! How did I teach these tricks? I simply praised the wanted behavior when he naturally offered it. Most of the tricks are taught randomly, and many of them taught on rainy and windy days, because Batman’s energy level raises when the weather is chilly. Batman smiles after eating an apple? I added a cue by praising the behavior over and over again, until he connected the cue with the behavior. When you have done this a couple of times, the horse will easier learn new tricks, because it will be more observant of your body language and feel familiar with the procedure. Clicker training makes the horse more curious and attentive is my personal experience.

All of my tricks, except from head down, stand on pedestal and rear (bridle and regular halter for guidance) is taught at liberty.

I use treats when I teach tricks, because that’s an easy way to tell your horse that he did a great job. If you first teach the horse to be polite around you, treats is not a problem, but a helpful tool. But I also use other types of praise, such as:

How I praise Batman

  • Scratching/rub
  • Feeding him bananas, apples, carrots, pellets and treats in general
  • Giving him a break, let him do whatever he wants to
  • Grooming him with a massage brush
  • Vocal praise, such as “good boy!”
  • Ending the session

Batman know the following tricks (in chronological order)

Head down

After a ride, I let the reins down on Batman’s neck, and noticed that he often lowered his head. I then added the vocal cue “ned” (down) and it did not take long before he immediately responded to the word. This trick is the most practical one he know, because it also works as a “reboot”. I always want the horse to be relaxed when I’m around, and when you have a Friesian, which tend to be a bit up in the air sometimes, it is very helpful. Batman is naturally spooky, but became much more down to earth when I started  showed him the earth, 2 meters closer to the ground ;)

“Come here”

Carrots and a large arena. Simple as that. Now, Bat will follow me wherever I go, but it is definitely a good idea to have a cue to bring the horse back to you, especially when doing liberty canter work. Batman first did this in walk, but now does this in canter and trot too.

“Park and stay”

Another basic, but brilliant trick. I can literally park Batman everywhere and leave him there. It is great when you are into driving, or if you are forgetful as I am. I often forget my treats, helmet and so on, and it is nice to park Batman outside the tack room and head back in there. I use this trick on a daily basis. The vocal cue is “stå”, and to reimain standing from longer distance I also uses “bli”. Which means stay, and remain there.


The first “cool” trick I taught Batman! First by lifting my own leg and touching his front leg at the same time. The first time he lifted the front leg, it was just 2 cm, but he got tons of praise for the attempt and I encouraged him to continue. He then tried to lift the leg higher and higher, until we got a jambette. My cue is to point on his shoulder or lift my leg.


Taught from the ground through playing. He once reared when I played with body language and energy a rainy day during spring. It was cold and windy and we was inside the riding arena. He then reared when I moved towards his hindquarters, and I praised him immediately, as I was searching for a way to make him dare to express his energy through rearing. Later the cue had to be perfectionized, which took around a year before I had an okay result. I use the same cue when I ride him, and do not focus on the front legs in the rear at all. All I cared about was the angle and the placement of the hindquarters, I wanted a safe and balanced rear, not a “stiff hind legs, bent back, tense neck, bad balance”-rear.

Lie down

I have already written a very long and detailed blog post about this one, and you can read it here.


I waited a long time with this one, because bringing a huge horses head towards your skull is not a really good idea in the first place. The first step was to teach him to lift his head, and that one was easy, because he already knew to follow my hand. So I simply lifted my arm and praised him when he followed. It took a day or two untill he knew how to kiss me gently on the cheek when I lifted my hand and pointed. I later added a “kissing sound” (haha) so now he will kiss me with a vocal cue. I no longer use my hands. I am glad I waited with this trick, the result is a super gentle and careful horse, and I always gotta ask him twice when I have not done it earlier that day. I recommend this blog post about the trick.


Feed the horse something with a weird taste. Add a cue to the reaction. Simple as that. Batman always smiled when I gave him treats from Sweden actually. I added a vocal cue for this one too, by coincidence! So this one is definitely my weirdest cue ever, it is the sound “uhmmmmmm”. I also think he forgot how to smile, I have not practiced this one in a while.

Stand on pedestal

It is a plus if the horse knows jambette from before. I simply asked Batman for jambette when he stood in front of a hay bale or pedestal, and then he lifted the leg towards the pedestal. When the hoof hit the pedestal, I praised him. I encouraged him to lift the foot higher, until he rested it on the pedestal. The next step is to ask the horse to do the same thing with the other front leg, and walk more towards the object you want it to stand on. The first time Bat did this was in Hällekis in 2012 and he it took me 5 minutes to teach it!

Spanish walk

I taught Bat Spanish walk by asking for a jambette on one leg, run over to the other side, ask for jambette on the other leg, and praise, so he got used to lift them both on shorter intervals. The next step was to be able to ask him to lift the opposite leg with me remaining in the same position, which went well too. Then I started walking slowly forward with him. One step at the time, the Spanish walk started to appear. Practice makes perfect!

Pick up whip

I held the whip in front of Batman, and praised him when he touched it with his muzzle. When he tried to chew on it, I praised him even more, and later he could hold it for a couple of seconds. Then I placed the whip on a chair, and then on the ground.

Play football

Also a result of jambette and Spanish walk. I placed a yoga ball in front of Batman and asked him to lift his front leg, until he touched the ball and pushed it away. I recommend a large ball for tall horses, because Batman’s ball got stuck under his belly a lot. He is a chill horse, but a larger yoga ball is recommended. I then asked him to walk towards the ball and kick it, and later walk after it and kick it again.

Shake head

This is our newest one! During a photoshoot, Batman shook his head to move his forelock, and I taught it looked cool in the photos, so I praised him and added a vocal cue for it. So if you want an action photo on a horse standing still, this is the trick, haha. This behavior is unwanted by many, so be very clear with your cue, or stay away from this trick. It is mostly needed by equestrian Instagrammers with horses that can’t trot or canter at the moment, but are still in need of action photos! ;)

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Kissing horses – cute or dangerous?

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Batman when I started teaching “kiss”, I kept my hands on my back in the beginning, to give him less distractions.

One of the most popular tricks nowadays is the so called “kiss”. The horse is rising its head to touch your face with the muzzle. How adorable is it when your horse can kiss you on cue? It looks great on photos, and it is pretty easy to teach.

Batman knows this trick, and I often post photos of it myself. I mean, a soft, warm muzzle .. It is adorable!

But it can also be dangerous. The horse’s head weighs approximately 10% of the horse’s body weight, according to

Batman’s head alone weigh around 70-80 kg. My face is placed on one of the most vulnerable parts of my body, my head. Approx. 70 kg of horse head, moving a bit faster and clumsier than you expected, can actually do severe injury!

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We often use food as a reward when trick training horses, which in my opinion is great. But that is a powerful tool, and must be used with care. Timing is everything, and therefore, I don’t think kissing is the best trick to start with. When you know how to time the praise perfectly, and is feeling more confident with how your horse reacts to positive reinforcement, you can think about it. Horses are individuals, as we are.

When some horses know that they will be rewarded for touching your face, the eager for praise can, in worst case, result in a concussion, broken nose or other injuries. Not all horses are super careful at all times, and accidents do happen!

Some horses will be gentle and polite every single time, others might be a bit more eager because they love doing the trick so much. And you don’t want your horse or pony to bang his head towards your face to get treats!

Batman is the very gentle type, who is always very polite and careful around me, it does not matter how much praise and treats he gets, he is careful! Especially around my head, as I am around his. He does basically not really like having me around his face. But even with him, I waited years before I started teaching this trick, because I wanted to be 100% sure it would work out. I use a vocal cue to ask Batman to kiss, and he is always moving his head slowly towards my head, before giving a light touch. I think it works out very well with him, but I know horses I would not recommend teaching this trick at all.

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My best tips

  • First of all, find out if the trick will suit your horse’s personality
  • If you decide that you will try, make sure your cue you will use cannot be mistaken for other cues
  • Teach the trick step by step, start with teaching your horse to lift and stretch his head slightly towards you, don’t reward for touching your face the first times
  • I don’t recommend you to teach your horse to kiss your face when you are lifting your arm or pointing at your head, because your horse can have trouble separate the cue from normal behavior such as removing hair from your eyes, etc.

Can your horse kiss on cue? What do you think about the trick?

Peace, love and Friesian hugs,
Batman & Matilde

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How to teach your horse to lie down, the positive way

I know you have asked many times about a blog like this, and the last couple of days I have had some spare time, so I finally wrote it for you!

Who does not dream about having a horse who can lie down on a simple cue? It is the goal for many equestrians because it’s a trick that demands lots of training and preparation – and equal trust. But do you need to be a professional trick trainer to teach your horse to lie down? Nope! In this blog post I will down to the smallest details explain the steps of the process of teaching a horse to lie down on cue without ANY pressure, ropes or force.

This is 100% positive reinforcement, and I prefer to do it this way because it keeps the horse comfortable, in control of its own body and that makes him feel safe. Training a horse to lie down this way demands patience, and although my way is not the most effective way, it is the most horse-friendly way. That’s what matters to me. I have used this method on several horses with great success, both introverts and extroverts.

horse lie down on cue2Rolling is natural behavior, and you can teach a horse to lie down on cue with rewarding natural behavior. This is the method Batman showed me, and the method I will explain to you.

Horses lie down in nature only a few hours a day, and a couple of seconds every time they roll. Lying down is a without doubt natural behavior for horses, but they only do it when they feel safe. Therefore, especially with this trick, we have to make sure the horse is feeling comfortable with the situation, at all times. A good way of doing that is to remove everything we know about pressure and release, and use R+ (positive reinforcement). It is a smart way to teach a trick through natural behavior, if you use the correct method. You simply reward wanted behavior. This is the method I will explain for you. Your tools are:

  • Body language
  • Patience
  • Connection

If you do have these tools, you can in the theory do anything. I have asked horses to lie down who have never had any experiences with trick training before, simply because they paid attention to my body language and was curious and interested.

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Batman sleeping. Horses only lie down when they feel safe and comfortable, and therefore it is smart to start the preparation with finding out where your horse is more likely to lie down.

Pulling up the horse’s leg until it decides to give up and lie down is a kind of method that easily can break your horse down. (The typical “cowboy-method”) Horses lie down when forced with power if they are about to get killed and have given up their life. Some horses can handle being pushed by a human in a vulnerable position, but you will never know how the horse actually feels about it before you have put your horse in the situation already. Would you put your horse in that situation if you knew he would hate it? Nope.

Therefore, we keep our distance, make sure the horse has enough space to simply walk away, and give him a choice. Do you WANT to lie down or do you want to walk to the other side of the arena and lie down, or do you not want to lie down right now at all? No matter which option the horse choose, it’s the correct option. Why? Because it’s all up to the horse! :)

«Anything forced or misunderstood, can never be beautiful»

horse lie down on cue3Horses need around two and a half hours of sleep a day. They usually sleep in short intervals.

The first step in the process

Get to know your horse, establish a good connection from the ground. Please read this blog psot about the topic. How much time do you spend together with your horse without riding? A good place to start is to simply remove the tack after riding, and walk around in the arena together to cool down. You can add some simple exercises as stop and walk again. Reward a lot. The bond between you two is the key to everything when it comes to trick training. If the horse is used to read your body language and get something informative out of you, it will be much easier to ask him to lie down. Be aware of your body language, and use body language instead of pulling the horse after you. If you do have a good bond and have done some liberty training from the ground already, it will be much easier to teach the trick.

Your horse will need to use his brain to understand what you want, and the connection between you two is therefore, as I said, everything. If the horse is used to figure out what you want from the ground and then be rewarded for it, the horse will automatically be interested and curious if you are trying to ask him to lie down. A curious horse is easier to work with than a horse that usually never gets asked to do anything else than follow you from the paddock and to the stable and then back again!

If you have done much liberty training or other training based on positive reinforcement, is well aware of the body language and know your horse’s behavior, this trick can be taught in less a day. The things that takes time, is to get the horse’s attention and make him curious. You have to be fun to hang out with to gain the horse’s valuable attention!

horse lying down on cueA horse’s trust can never be forced, it must be deserved.

Study your horse and prepare

When does your horse lie down? Is there a particular spot he likes to roll? Does he roll after a long hack? Does he like do relax in his paddock in the morning? Will he take a mud-bath after being washed? Does he roll when the rest of the herd rolls? Is he unsafe in general and you rarely see him roll or lie down?

Ask yourself all of these questions, it’s a very important part of teaching this trick. When we are teaching a horse to lie down from natural behavior, we will make it much easier for ourselves when we do some research first.

With Batman, I had noticed through the years that he loves to roll in the arena when I took his saddle off. That’s where I started with him.

  1. Spend time with your horse at liberty from the ground, and reward him for mirroring your movements. If the horse follows you in walk, reward. If the horse follows you into a halt, reward. If the horse starts running around if you are jumping around, reward.
  2. Find out in which situations your horse is most likely to lie down or roll on its own.

Remember, the preparation is EVERYTHING.

horse lie down on cueBatman relaxing with me as a pillow is a result of equal trust, training and playing from the ground and positive reinforcement. Batman is a horse with low confidence and is both introverted and insecure in general.

Teaching the trick itself

The second step in the process of teaching your horse to lie down on cue is to start trying. If your horse rarely rolls, you can approach him when he is lying down in the paddock and reward him a lot for staying in the lying position when you walks towards him.

If you will try it through rolling, as is the more effective way, you can start trying that. Your horse might be a little sweaty after a dressage session, and the entire arena is empty. Go grab your treats and patience, remove all the tack, give your horse a rub on his favorite spot and walk around for some minutes together with your horse at liberty. Try to get him to mirror your movements and reward a lot. When you feel that the horse is connected to you, is paying attention to your body language and is curious for your next cue, you can start asking him to lie down.

horse lying down trickBatman mirroring me in a foreign arena. At home, I give him only a small voice cue. In strange places or outdoors, I use my body language much more.

In herds, horses roll after each other in the same spot. This is natural behavior as well. Walk slowly, bend in your back and in your knees, look down in the sand, and if you know that your horse is making noises when he rolls, you can copy them as well. (Worked AMAZING on Bat) Keep on going, and use your foot to scratch a little in the sand. Walk in small circles. Pay attention to your horse, does he look interested? It’s very important that the horse understands that you are communicating with him, so keep an eye on him. If he walks in another direction, walk after and try to gain his attention again. Try to lie down or sit down yourself. Continue to make rolling horse noises, look at the ground and breathe.

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If your horse understood you quickly and does lie down or roll on the first attempt, praise a lot vocally. If you are nearby, try to walk slowly and carefully towards your horse (only if you know that your horse is comfortable with you). If you are allowed to go near the horse, give him A LOT of treats as fast as you can and continue to praise vocally. I used a plastic bag filled with carrots and apples at first, and made plastic bag-noises as a “treats are coming, you did good-noise” to praise him as soon as possible. Praise the horse like he just jumped a 2 meter fence with three perfect lead changes and a canter pirouette at the same time! Then take a step back and let the horse continue rolling or get back up. Then you put a halter on and walks out of the arena. That’s it for today!

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If your horse is looking at the ground, walking in circles and looks like he is thinking about lying down, praise and walk out. Do NOT try for more than 15 minutes. The horse learns more from short sessions, and will spend the night thinking about today’s new experiences. You can try again tomorrow, using the same technique. To make this trick work, you must be very patient. I have spent hours and hours in the arena with Batman to get where we are today. Leaving the arena with pride and a good feeling is something you must get used to, even though you did not achieve “anything”. Because you always achieve something. You achieve wisdom, your bond will be stronger, and maybe your horse learned something.

You must accept that the horse can choose to say no, I don’t wanna lie down today, but I understood your question. You can ask again gently, but you must know that there will be days the horse simply does not want to lie down, and that’s something you just have to live with. When we use positive reinforcement, we become very proud that the horse chooses to stay with us, play with us, do tricks together with us and pay attention. But we are always giving them the choice to walk away or say no, thank you.

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It is also important to let the horse find the perfect spot if he does not want to lie down where you are standing, but when you both are more experienced, you can use a halter and a 2 meter lead rope and start teaching the horse to lie down by your side. The horse can choose which particular spot around you, but stay by your side the entire time.

Lying flat

When the horse is 100% comfortable with lying down, you can teach him to lie flat. I prefer to use a target, for example hold a carrot in front of the horse and let him reach for it. Move the carrot a bit for every time, until the horse stretch so much that he eventually lie down flat. I prefer not to touch the horse, allowing him to move his body freely and keeping his balance. The horse feels most comfortable when he is in control of his own body.

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Take it from there, and soon you can just point with your finger to make him lie flat. Give him treats when he is lying flat as well, and ask him to stay a little longer every time. Eventually, your horse will lie down flat for a while. Remember that this is a very vulnerable position where the horse does not have much control, if he become insecure, he will get up in a second. Be aware of that and keep safe distance to the front legs. The horse can also start rolling, be careful and ALWAYS pay attention.

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My boyfriend Daniel trick training with Batman. Be always calm, give the horse space when he is lying down.

Resting in your lap

I taught Batman to rest his head in my lap in 2014, but I do not recommend you to try this unless you are 100% sure about what you are doing. If somethings go wrong, the horse CAN roll over you, and you can be stuck under the head and neck. Especially with big horses, be careful! No trick is so impressive that it’s worth injuring your head for. Batman’s head weigh around 70-80 kg and he can easiliy crush my ribs by accident. This can actually be very dangerous, so please be careful.

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It looks cute and it is lovely, but it can be dangerous. I know Batman’s behavior extremely well after 6,5 years together, I would never have done this with other horses than him.


When lying down the surface is also important; to some horses more than others. You cannot expect your horse to lie down on rocky gravel or wet mud. After some months of training you can ask your horse to lie down in a field or in the paddock or pasture, in the forest or other places with soft surface. Batman is very picky when it comes to surface, he has a heavy body and if I ask him to lie down on a hard surface it can be uncomfortable or painful. We do not want that!

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I asked Batman to lie down in the snow, but there was loads of ice below the snow that I did not notice. Batman understood my cue, and got halfway down, and then back again. He got LOADS of praise for this. He took my cue, but he chooses to get back up again because of the ice.

Be careful with your position around the horse and safety in general

This is VERY important. When you are around a horse which is lying down, the horse is in a very vulnerable position. Be ALWAYS prepared for that the horse any minute can get up, and a horse can get back up again fast. When sitting down beside a horse who is lying down, do NOT sit right in front of him. When a horse gets back up, he places his front legs straight forward, and then into a sitting position. You can be seriously injured if the horse hits you with his front legs and hooves.

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Batman getting back up, in the photo, in a sitting position. If I had sat in front of him here, he would have hit me with his front hooves.

A horse who is lying down can also suddenly decide to roll. Therefore, it is important that you are paying attention to his body language at all times. If the horse rolls over you with over 500 kg of weight, you can die if you are unlucky. Lying down is a cute trick that demands lots of trust, but not all horses are aware of their size and they rarely think of consequences. “My back scratching, let’s take a roll! Ooooohmygod! Human, I did not see you!” Be CAREFUL! :)

Lying down under rider

You can transfer the trick from the ground to under saddle. I recommend you starting from the ground, and when you both know the trick very well, you can try from the ground. I added a vocal cue when I taught Batman from the ground, and I use the same cue when I ask him to lie down from the back. I also relax in my entire body, breathe and give him the time he needs.  Sometimes he drops down in 10 seconds, other times he need some time to think. How the horse reacts do the cue depends on the horse’s personality. Some horses are more eager than others, Batman is as mentioned earlier, both introverted and pretty shy. To me, everything is about get him to feel confident. I recommend to start without a saddle, just in case of rolling. When the horse hits the ground, jump off on the side the legs not are, sit down and praise. Later you can be sitting and give the treats from the horse’s back. Like teaching the horse to lie down from the ground, it is smart to try it while mounted a place the horse is used to lie down from before.

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You can use the trick to get on the horse easily as well, without stirrups. Be calm and patient, praise a lot and give the horse time. When the horse gets up, hold on! It can be a pretty rough movement and horses can be slippery.

A few months after reading this blog, you hopefully have a horse that can lie down when you ask! It is a very fun trick and the perfect way to end a session, to simply relax together or for a photoshoot! Good luck with the training, and remember: patience is the key.

If you have questions about using treats in horse training, or positive reinforcement in general, please read Fairyhorsemanships articles here.

I hope you enjoyed my blog post – if you have any questions, please ask below. Feel free to share with your friends in social media!

Peace, love and Friesian hugs,
Batman & Matilde