Life With A Friesian Dream

A Norwegian folklore, Batman & Matilde at Heddal Stavkyrkje

Some days I truly live in a fairytale. This is one of them! Here is the photos from our epic photoshoot with Une Susrud in front of Heddal Stavkyrkje in Telemark. We spend many hours on this location and there was tourists all over the place, haha. The stave church is over 800 years old, and according to an old, local folklore, it was built by a troll named Finn. The church is filled with gorgeous wood carvings on the outside, and you can see the traditional rose paintings on the inside. Truly a remarkable piece of Norwegian history.

In the Middle Ages, we had over 1000 stave churches in Norway, and today there are only 32 left, and this is the largest of them all. Heddal Stave Church is one of them.

I’m so grateful for these special photos from a truly beautiful location.

PS: If you are looking for a belt bag or viking dress, have it in stock! I’m their ambassador.

Peace, love and Friesian hugs,
Batman & Matilde


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Happy Halloween!

Happy Halloween from Batman aka The Dark Knight! With a horse like him, it does not require much effort to get him ready for Samhain. In the photos he is decorated with fall leaves sponsored by Fleur À Cheval, awesome mane clips, perfect for this season!

You can order your own set of decorative leaves here. I think the golden ones are stunning!

I have dressed Batman up a few times before; some years ago I made him a Nazgûl-costume, haha! With a breast collar made of heavy chains, me wearing a dark cloak and Batman with a black caparison, we won best costume in a gymkhana contest. Maybe it is time to find that costume again and do a proper photoshoot.

Anyways, Happy Halloween from us!

Last year’s Halloween-photos can be seen here!


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Batman Blue mane flower clips is back in stock!

Sponsored by Fleur À Cheval, photo by Une Susrud

Did you know that Batman have his very own collection of mane flower clips named after him? 💙 He do! In California, actually! The midnight blue mane flower clips from Fleur À Cheval he wore during our 7 year-photoshoot become very popular – and now they are back in stock on!

Fleur À Cheval is a startup ran by the two friends Maryam & Kayla. They are based in Southern California, and their hand made mane flower clips for equine mane and tail are shipped to horse lovers from all over the world. I’m proud to be an ambassador for these girls, they are doing a great job and their product is perfect for decorating both you and your horse for photoshoots and special occasions. Build your favorite set of flowers yourself and support their brilliant work!

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The secret behind Batman’s long mane: Best tips on mane growth and care


With over 1 meter of hair attached to his neck, reaching all the way down to his knees, Batman has got quite a lot of mane. Mane and tail growth has most to do with genetics, and it is difficult to change your horse’s genes. What you can do on the other hand, is to simply take good care of the mane your horse actually have. Protect it! New hair will grow out, and when it does, you can actually prevent damage with a few easy steps.

When I got Batman, his mane was so cute. Short, not very thick and matched his baby face perfectly, haha. I never expected his mane to get any longer. He looked like a completely different horse, and over the past seven years, lots has happened indeed .. Here’s an old photo, just for the sake of comparison.

Photo from 2009, our first day together. Not a typically hairy Friesian!

The truth is that I really don’t to much to take care of Batman’s mane, and maybe that’s the key? This is what I do:

1. I never ever use any brushes

Over the past 6 years, I have touched Batman’s mane with a brush three times. On a daily basis, I only use my fingers to carefully go through the hair and manually get rid of the knots and tangles in it. It takes more time, but it works. Brushes and combs are effective, but they do remove lots of unnecessary hair, which I prefer to avoid. I’m also careful when I groom the coat underneath the mane, so the mane won’t fasten to the brush.

grow-long-maneMane flower clips sponsored by

2. I wash the mane only once a year

I only wash Batman’s mane with shampoo one time per year. He gets shower more often, but a real wash happens only once each summer. When I wash his mane, I prefer Cowboy Magic’s products and I also leave the conditioner in for a couple of minutes before I rinse it out. The result is a clean, shiny and soft mane that is easy to handle and looks stunning. I have used Cowboy Magic for 6 years, but I’m sure other brands will do the job too ;) I have tried several others, but I always end up going back to Cowboy Magic. I use the Detangler and Spray a couple of times a month in mane, taile and on coat, and always before photoshoots. The products turn a dirty and dusy grey-ish horse into a shiny, black Batman ready to take over the world. Cowboy Magic’s Detangler & Shine is my number one favorite when it comes to grooming the tail too.

Products I use in Batman’s mane

long-mane-friesianBatman in 2016.

3. I makes sure he never lacks minerals and vitamins

Correct nutrition is vital for both mane, tail, hooves and coat. I’m always making sure Batman gets the correct feed and supplements, so he never lacks any minerals and vitamins. The diet is very important, and I recommend you to dig deeper into the nutrition in both the hay and supplements. Always have an analysis on your hay/forage, and give supplements based on the results. Don’t buy supplements just because the label says that it will make your horse’s mane grow! The more we can cover through the basic diet, the better, but if the hay lacks minerals or vitamins, the horse will need supplements. I regularly take blood tests to make sure everything seems okay.

Vitamins and minerals that are essential when it comes to hair growth

  • Zinc
  • Vitamin B7 (biotin)
  • Protein (amino acid methionine)
  • Omega 3 fatty acids

equine-nutritionBatman eating hay with braids.

4. I keep his mane in braids all year around

My next advice is braids. I braid Batman 24/7, simply to avoid unnecessary amounts of hair to fall off. The most important part is the mane further down on the neck, because if you are riding, and your horse have one meter of mane, you will have so much trouble with the mane tangling around your hands, under your seat and in your face. It is nearly impossible to ride Batman in trot without braids, the hair is literally everywhere. Braids also help the horse avoid being sweaty underneath the mane. A horse sweating under the mane will eventually start itching, which can lead to large amounts of mane breaking and falling off. I have around six braids hanging down, and use rubber bands to fasten them. Simple as that! His mane gets breaks from braids a couple of weeks here and there, especially in the winter.

Tips on braiding

  • Be careful when you starts each braid, let them hang a little loose so the hair won’t be pulled in different directions when the horse bends its neck and moves around
  • Fasten each braid before the hair gets too thin at the bottom
  • Rebraid every two weeks, spray with showshine, and get rid of tangles by using your fingers

The first braid I ever made on Batman, in 2009. 

horse-braidsBatman with braids in 2015. The mane grew rapidly in 2015 and 2016.

5. I avoid neck-covering winter rugs

I don’t recommend you to throw away the rug when your horse needs it just because you want a longer mane, but rugs, especially the ones covering the neck, will lead to more damage on the mane. Batman never wear a rug because he don’t need it, and I don’t think his mane would be that long if he wore heavy rugs from September to April every year.

long-mane-horseFall 2016, with a super long mane.

6. I never pull or sit on the mane

Don’t pull the mane when you are mounting your horse; be careful when riding without braids so you don’t end up sitting on parts of the mane. I remember going for longer hacks with a higher tempo, without braids, and the mane sneaking under between the saddle and my seat. Every time I touched the saddle, I pulled hairs out. Not optimal – a thousand long hairs fell out along the way.

horse-mane-growNew hairs growing out, even at the age of 12.

7. There are no mane-hungry yearlings around

Foals and youngsters can be the devil themselves when it comes to preserving an impressive mane, because some young horses tend to love biting and pulling the mane and tail on other horses. I’m actually glad we don’t have any mane-eating yearling monsters around, haha! They are lovely and playful and fun to watch, until the moment they show up with 10 years of hair growth in their mouth!

Trees on the other hand, is it plenty of in Batman’s home, and so far, no unfortunate meetings with mane-eating trees either!