How to teach your horse to lie down, the positive way

I know you have asked many times about a blog like this, and the last couple of days I have had some spare time, so I finally wrote it for you!

Who does not dream about having a horse who can lie down on a simple cue? It is the goal for many equestrians because it’s a trick that demands lots of training and preparation – and equal trust. But do you need to be a professional trick trainer to teach your horse to lie down? Nope! In this blog post I will down to the smallest details explain the steps of the process of teaching a horse to lie down on cue without ANY pressure, ropes or force.

This is 100% positive reinforcement, and I prefer to do it this way because it keeps the horse comfortable, in control of its own body and that makes him feel safe. Training a horse to lie down this way demands patience, and although my way is not the most effective way, it is the most horse-friendly way. That’s what matters to me. I have used this method on several horses with great success, both introverts and extroverts.

horse lie down on cue2Rolling is natural behavior, and you can teach a horse to lie down on cue with rewarding natural behavior. This is the method Batman showed me, and the method I will explain to you.

Horses lie down in nature only a few hours a day, and a couple of seconds every time they roll. Lying down is a without doubt natural behavior for horses, but they only do it when they feel safe. Therefore, especially with this trick, we have to make sure the horse is feeling comfortable with the situation, at all times. A good way of doing that is to remove everything we know about pressure and release, and use R+ (positive reinforcement). It is a smart way to teach a trick through natural behavior, if you use the correct method. You simply reward wanted behavior. This is the method I will explain for you. Your tools are:

  • Body language
  • Patience
  • Connection

If you do have these tools, you can in the theory do anything. I have asked horses to lie down who have never had any experiences with trick training before, simply because they paid attention to my body language and was curious and interested.

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Batman sleeping. Horses only lie down when they feel safe and comfortable, and therefore it is smart to start the preparation with finding out where your horse is more likely to lie down.

Pulling up the horse’s leg until it decides to give up and lie down is a kind of method that easily can break your horse down. (The typical “cowboy-method”) Horses lie down when forced with power if they are about to get killed and have given up their life. Some horses can handle being pushed by a human in a vulnerable position, but you will never know how the horse actually feels about it before you have put your horse in the situation already. Would you put your horse in that situation if you knew he would hate it? Nope.

Therefore, we keep our distance, make sure the horse has enough space to simply walk away, and give him a choice. Do you WANT to lie down or do you want to walk to the other side of the arena and lie down, or do you not want to lie down right now at all? No matter which option the horse choose, it’s the correct option. Why? Because it’s all up to the horse! :)

«Anything forced or misunderstood, can never be beautiful»

horse lie down on cue3Horses need around two and a half hours of sleep a day. They usually sleep in short intervals.

The first step in the process

Get to know your horse, establish a good connection from the ground. Please read this blog psot about the topic. How much time do you spend together with your horse without riding? A good place to start is to simply remove the tack after riding, and walk around in the arena together to cool down. You can add some simple exercises as stop and walk again. Reward a lot. The bond between you two is the key to everything when it comes to trick training. If the horse is used to read your body language and get something informative out of you, it will be much easier to ask him to lie down. Be aware of your body language, and use body language instead of pulling the horse after you. If you do have a good bond and have done some liberty training from the ground already, it will be much easier to teach the trick.

Your horse will need to use his brain to understand what you want, and the connection between you two is therefore, as I said, everything. If the horse is used to figure out what you want from the ground and then be rewarded for it, the horse will automatically be interested and curious if you are trying to ask him to lie down. A curious horse is easier to work with than a horse that usually never gets asked to do anything else than follow you from the paddock and to the stable and then back again!

If you have done much liberty training or other training based on positive reinforcement, is well aware of the body language and know your horse’s behavior, this trick can be taught in less a day. The things that takes time, is to get the horse’s attention and make him curious. You have to be fun to hang out with to gain the horse’s valuable attention!

horse lying down on cueA horse’s trust can never be forced, it must be deserved.

Study your horse and prepare

When does your horse lie down? Is there a particular spot he likes to roll? Does he roll after a long hack? Does he like do relax in his paddock in the morning? Will he take a mud-bath after being washed? Does he roll when the rest of the herd rolls? Is he unsafe in general and you rarely see him roll or lie down?

Ask yourself all of these questions, it’s a very important part of teaching this trick. When we are teaching a horse to lie down from natural behavior, we will make it much easier for ourselves when we do some research first.

With Batman, I had noticed through the years that he loves to roll in the arena when I took his saddle off. That’s where I started with him.

  1. Spend time with your horse at liberty from the ground, and reward him for mirroring your movements. If the horse follows you in walk, reward. If the horse follows you into a halt, reward. If the horse starts running around if you are jumping around, reward.
  2. Find out in which situations your horse is most likely to lie down or roll on its own.

Remember, the preparation is EVERYTHING.

horse lie down on cueBatman relaxing with me as a pillow is a result of equal trust, training and playing from the ground and positive reinforcement. Batman is a horse with low confidence and is both introverted and insecure in general.

Teaching the trick itself

The second step in the process of teaching your horse to lie down on cue is to start trying. If your horse rarely rolls, you can approach him when he is lying down in the paddock and reward him a lot for staying in the lying position when you walks towards him.

If you will try it through rolling, as is the more effective way, you can start trying that. Your horse might be a little sweaty after a dressage session, and the entire arena is empty. Go grab your treats and patience, remove all the tack, give your horse a rub on his favorite spot and walk around for some minutes together with your horse at liberty. Try to get him to mirror your movements and reward a lot. When you feel that the horse is connected to you, is paying attention to your body language and is curious for your next cue, you can start asking him to lie down.

horse lying down trickBatman mirroring me in a foreign arena. At home, I give him only a small voice cue. In strange places or outdoors, I use my body language much more.

In herds, horses roll after each other in the same spot. This is natural behavior as well. Walk slowly, bend in your back and in your knees, look down in the sand, and if you know that your horse is making noises when he rolls, you can copy them as well. (Worked AMAZING on Bat) Keep on going, and use your foot to scratch a little in the sand. Walk in small circles. Pay attention to your horse, does he look interested? It’s very important that the horse understands that you are communicating with him, so keep an eye on him. If he walks in another direction, walk after and try to gain his attention again. Try to lie down or sit down yourself. Continue to make rolling horse noises, look at the ground and breathe.

teach your horse to lie down

If your horse understood you quickly and does lie down or roll on the first attempt, praise a lot vocally. If you are nearby, try to walk slowly and carefully towards your horse (only if you know that your horse is comfortable with you). If you are allowed to go near the horse, give him A LOT of treats as fast as you can and continue to praise vocally. I used a plastic bag filled with carrots and apples at first, and made plastic bag-noises as a “treats are coming, you did good-noise” to praise him as soon as possible. Praise the horse like he just jumped a 2 meter fence with three perfect lead changes and a canter pirouette at the same time! Then take a step back and let the horse continue rolling or get back up. Then you put a halter on and walks out of the arena. That’s it for today!

horse lie down trick

If your horse is looking at the ground, walking in circles and looks like he is thinking about lying down, praise and walk out. Do NOT try for more than 15 minutes. The horse learns more from short sessions, and will spend the night thinking about today’s new experiences. You can try again tomorrow, using the same technique. To make this trick work, you must be very patient. I have spent hours and hours in the arena with Batman to get where we are today. Leaving the arena with pride and a good feeling is something you must get used to, even though you did not achieve “anything”. Because you always achieve something. You achieve wisdom, your bond will be stronger, and maybe your horse learned something.

You must accept that the horse can choose to say no, I don’t wanna lie down today, but I understood your question. You can ask again gently, but you must know that there will be days the horse simply does not want to lie down, and that’s something you just have to live with. When we use positive reinforcement, we become very proud that the horse chooses to stay with us, play with us, do tricks together with us and pay attention. But we are always giving them the choice to walk away or say no, thank you.

bat lying down

It is also important to let the horse find the perfect spot if he does not want to lie down where you are standing, but when you both are more experienced, you can use a halter and a 2 meter lead rope and start teaching the horse to lie down by your side. The horse can choose which particular spot around you, but stay by your side the entire time.

Lying flat

When the horse is 100% comfortable with lying down, you can teach him to lie flat. I prefer to use a target, for example hold a carrot in front of the horse and let him reach for it. Move the carrot a bit for every time, until the horse stretch so much that he eventually lie down flat. I prefer not to touch the horse, allowing him to move his body freely and keeping his balance. The horse feels most comfortable when he is in control of his own body.

horse trick trainin

Take it from there, and soon you can just point with your finger to make him lie flat. Give him treats when he is lying flat as well, and ask him to stay a little longer every time. Eventually, your horse will lie down flat for a while. Remember that this is a very vulnerable position where the horse does not have much control, if he become insecure, he will get up in a second. Be aware of that and keep safe distance to the front legs. The horse can also start rolling, be careful and ALWAYS pay attention.

horse trick training
My boyfriend Daniel trick training with Batman. Be always calm, give the horse space when he is lying down.

Resting in your lap

I taught Batman to rest his head in my lap in 2014, but I do not recommend you to try this unless you are 100% sure about what you are doing. If somethings go wrong, the horse CAN roll over you, and you can be stuck under the head and neck. Especially with big horses, be careful! No trick is so impressive that it’s worth injuring your head for. Batman’s head weigh around 70-80 kg and he can easiliy crush my ribs by accident. This can actually be very dangerous, so please be careful.

horse lying in lap
It looks cute and it is lovely, but it can be dangerous. I know Batman’s behavior extremely well after 6,5 years together, I would never have done this with other horses than him.


When lying down the surface is also important; to some horses more than others. You cannot expect your horse to lie down on rocky gravel or wet mud. After some months of training you can ask your horse to lie down in a field or in the paddock or pasture, in the forest or other places with soft surface. Batman is very picky when it comes to surface, he has a heavy body and if I ask him to lie down on a hard surface it can be uncomfortable or painful. We do not want that!

horse friesian
I asked Batman to lie down in the snow, but there was loads of ice below the snow that I did not notice. Batman understood my cue, and got halfway down, and then back again. He got LOADS of praise for this. He took my cue, but he chooses to get back up again because of the ice.

Be careful with your position around the horse and safety in general

This is VERY important. When you are around a horse which is lying down, the horse is in a very vulnerable position. Be ALWAYS prepared for that the horse any minute can get up, and a horse can get back up again fast. When sitting down beside a horse who is lying down, do NOT sit right in front of him. When a horse gets back up, he places his front legs straight forward, and then into a sitting position. You can be seriously injured if the horse hits you with his front legs and hooves.

sitting horse
Batman getting back up, in the photo, in a sitting position. If I had sat in front of him here, he would have hit me with his front hooves.

A horse who is lying down can also suddenly decide to roll. Therefore, it is important that you are paying attention to his body language at all times. If the horse rolls over you with over 500 kg of weight, you can die if you are unlucky. Lying down is a cute trick that demands lots of trust, but not all horses are aware of their size and they rarely think of consequences. “My back scratching, let’s take a roll! Ooooohmygod! Human, I did not see you!” Be CAREFUL! :)

Lying down under rider

You can transfer the trick from the ground to under saddle. I recommend you starting from the ground, and when you both know the trick very well, you can try from the ground. I added a vocal cue when I taught Batman from the ground, and I use the same cue when I ask him to lie down from the back. I also relax in my entire body, breathe and give him the time he needs.  Sometimes he drops down in 10 seconds, other times he need some time to think. How the horse reacts do the cue depends on the horse’s personality. Some horses are more eager than others, Batman is as mentioned earlier, both introverted and pretty shy. To me, everything is about get him to feel confident. I recommend to start without a saddle, just in case of rolling. When the horse hits the ground, jump off on the side the legs not are, sit down and praise. Later you can be sitting and give the treats from the horse’s back. Like teaching the horse to lie down from the ground, it is smart to try it while mounted a place the horse is used to lie down from before.

horse lie down trick1 horse lie down trick2 horse lie down trick3

You can use the trick to get on the horse easily as well, without stirrups. Be calm and patient, praise a lot and give the horse time. When the horse gets up, hold on! It can be a pretty rough movement and horses can be slippery.

A few months after reading this blog, you hopefully have a horse that can lie down when you ask! It is a very fun trick and the perfect way to end a session, to simply relax together or for a photoshoot! Good luck with the training, and remember: patience is the key.

If you have questions about using treats in horse training, or positive reinforcement in general, please read Fairyhorsemanships articles here.

I hope you enjoyed my blog post – if you have any questions, please ask below. Feel free to share with your friends in social media!

Peace, love and Friesian hugs,
Batman & Matilde




36 thoughts on “How to teach your horse to lie down, the positive way

  1. Thank you so much for sharing this way of teaching to lay down Matilde! I never read something about this method anywhere else. When I get Fjalla back in training I will defenetly prepare her for this way! She is also very introvert and she needs a lot of positive reinforcement and rewarding in liberty and any other training. Currently I am working on getting her more confident and to get her more thinking about an exercise instead of just doing what I tell her to do. :)

  2. Thank you a lot for this post ! This is like a Christmas gift to me. I always wanted to see my horse laying down our rolling but it never happens…
    I will try to teach him with this technique, I love it !
    Thank you !

  3. Har prøvd meg litt frem med merra her, men vi har ikke kommet så langt. Etter jeg har ridd henne, elsker hun å rulle seg, og om jeg roser henne når hun ligger nede, stopper hun opp, ligger der og får godbit en god stund før hun reiser seg. Men da er hun så bestemt på å rulle seg at hun ikke ser på meg. Så jeg kan stå langt unna, rett ved siden av – og hun bryr seg ikke.
    Visst jeg skal prøve på dette enten etter hun har rulla seg, eller hun ikke er svett, er hun så ivrig på ros og godbiter at hun skraper med foten, også kommer hun bort til meg. Det er alt hun gidder. Skal jeg bare fortsette å rose smått når hun skraper og snuser fordi hun vil rulle seg? Eller skal jeg vente og rose til hun har bøyd beina litt og skal til og legge seg ned?

  4. Thank you soo much matilde to share your way to teach Layout down!!! I will try your way to teach it. I think this is a really good way! Thank you soo much! ❤

  5. I love the way you communicate with your horse! It’s such a beautiful way and i understand why the horses loves you:) i try a lot with my blackforesthorse in groundwork and tricktraining. The tricks he knows and he likes the most he showed me first and so i have began to ask for it to do it again :) but i have to work on my bodylanguage a lot…i’ve been so nervice the most time…and…my gelding rarely lay down to roll…i think he is nervice too at this moments…but i try and try it again :) thank you so much for this blogpost!! Have great time and i like to read again soon!

  6. Love your training method and I love your beautiful horse and pictures. Since I moved to Canada from the north of The Netherlands, I miss Frisian horses! I used to be surrounded by them, now they are rare.Batman is a beautiful horse and you have a beautiful bond with him.

  7. Thankyou Matilde for the time & effort you’ve put into this blog! I’m really excited to give this a try! I have a very “cool dude” type of gypsy cob, who is not the most curious horse but carrots sure do get his interest, so I reckon we might just be able to do this ❤️

  8. Love your informative blog! I’m so impressed how much you know for such a young woman. Thank you for sharing your lessons with us! I’m going to try working on this with my mare and gelding. Is a 30ft round pen an ok space to try in or should I have more space?

  9. I always wanted to teach my horse to lay down, but all techniques I’ve read of contained ropes or other tricks but I didn’t really wanted to try them. My head resisted and then I thought that I would never be able to sit next to my horse because I told her somehow to lay down freely until I read your blog. I tried it today and after a few seconds of watching what I’m doing there Skýfaxa started mirroring my movements. First I scratched the ground a bit with my hand and turned around. She did the same, got on the ground, layed there for some seconds and began to roll. After that I totally flipped out and gave her treats and treats and praised her vocally. I am so proud of her!! Thank you so so much for sharing this wonderful way of working with horses with us!! <3

  10. Lovely, lovely work Matilde and with SUCH a great attitude as well. Forcibly laying a horse down can be such a traumatic experience and you’ve done a great job of doing it well.

  11. I didn’t really have time to read the post until now. But it was really, really good!! Soooo interesting and helpful! I loved it! Thank you so much for sharing

  12. I love your understanding of the horse. Thanks for sharing, so that people might understand the horse to. Where are you from?

  13. This is exactly how I teach my horses to lay down. I don’t believe in the holding the leg technique, none of my horses lay on their knees before going down, so it can’t be good for their body. I just started with one of mine a week and a half ago. It sounds like she is similar to your boy, unconfident and introverted. She just recently started consistently rolling after I hosed her off, so I decided she was ready to learn to lay down. She has learned quickly and usually gets it in under a minute.

  14. What a wonderful way of teaching the horse to lay down… I read some posts about different techniques and all of them involved ropes so I was hesitant about it… I have a formerly abused Rocky Mountain gelding who is very introverted and timid. I’ve had him for 2.5 years now and we’ve done a lot of ground work and liberty training. I’ve built up great trust with him. I’m the only person who can catch him in the pasture still… He became a very one person horse… This summer was the first time I noticed that after riding in the arena when I took off the tack he would roll… I started praising him and tried to get closer to him but he gets up as soon as I take a step towards him. I will continue to work with him with your method because this is the best!! This just gave me the reassurance to keep doing what I’ve been doing with him… I’m super excited to work with him more and hopefully in 2016 we’ll get the lay down trick on command. Thanks for the detailed blog and to take the time to explain everything thoroughly…

  15. Hello Matilde,
    I read your blog post of teaching your horse to lay down. In our arena my horse lay down but outside when I ask her to lay down she go down with her head like in the arena but outside she eat when she go down with her head to lay down. Have you any ideas how I can do this that she don’t ear by laying down ?

  16. such a cool technique!! i tried it with my horse after some liberty work. he did not lay down. but he was so interested.. startetd scratching in the sand.. watched me a bit confused forst but then nibbled on my foot.. had his head down.. he walked a bit away checking out some spots… scratched in the sand again..
    .. though he didnt lay down.. its such an intense level of communication.. he got so relaxed really quick and i felt that he immediately understood my gesture.. that was so amazing!!!
    thank you for sharing.. keep on sharing!!!

  17. Hey Matilde,
    Just a general thank you for the effort you put in getting the word out about working WITH your horse instead of against it. I really feel that you’re not doing it for fame but because the animals matter to you.
    It just took your mentioning of the idea for me to find a whole new way with my horse and HER teaching ME instead of the other way around. I grew up with horses so luckily i developed a good feeling for the animals and their moods and needs early on, but in an environment where all you hear is pressure and force and ‘show them whos boss’ it was hard to stay true to my instincts.
    I admire the way you stay calm about the subject, i get so mad when i see friends and others misunderstand and mistreat their furry friends, who are just not able to open up and let go of what the popular opinions on training are.
    Anyway i hope you keep on inspiring many more, hopefully i will get to Norway some day and say hi to you and mighty Batman ♡

  18. Such an inspiration to me and to watch you and Batman u will most definitely try this with my horse Khidd. I have never thought of teaching your horse this way!! :) my horse is 15.0 hands tall I really don’t know how u keep up with batman a size. My old horse who pasted away not long before Christmas new a bunch of Liberty tricks, when I got my new horse Khidd I lost all of that I was so sad :( but ever since My Mare passed away I stared coming on this wonderful blog!! ❤️ I can’t thank you enough for all the inspiration!!! :) ❤️

  19. so…. after some weeks of training… we did it… thank you for this amazing technique!!!
    … greetings from austria

  20. Such a great post! I’ve tried this twice so far with my own horse, and she laid down and rolled both times! Such an amazing feeling. She doesn’t feel comfortable with me coming too close when she’s laying down, but we’ll practice that :) Thank you!!

  21. hi matilde,
    i found your blog and your facebook page some weeks ago and i’m very impressed.
    i already tried to teach my horse to lie down now and he is also a very sensitive horse and so curious in what i’m doing mostly :D
    the problem now is that he understood that i want sth but he mirrors me with digging with his hooves in the sand. and now he doesn’t do more. i rewad that but when i want more or stay asking he gets annoyed that i’m not satisfied with his holes in the sand :D
    any idea how i can make him understand that i want sthelse?
    i know you have so many things on your mind so i just ask, and i will be happy about anything from you in anytime:)

  22. It works!!!!! Thanks so much this has really strengthened the bond between hazelnut and I and he’s starting to get it

  23. Just discovered your blog. I love it! Thank you for sharing your experiences and knowledge and love of your horse! I am an old woman who has loved horses all my life but have never had one!!! I did have a mini-mule that I loved as you love Batman!! I will definitely be a loyal follower of your blog!

  24. This post is great! I recognize so much of my own friesian in your stories from Batman. It also gives me the courage to pick up clicker training again, cause that worked geest in the past! Thanks a lot for writing down all of this!!

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